
I'm a fan of social media. I think it's fun connecting with long lost friends via sites like Facebook and Linked In as well as keeping up with buddies from high school and distant relatives. I remember when I first setup my Facebook account, my goal was to only "friend" people that I actually knew. I was looking at Facebook as being "personal" and sites like Twitter and LinkedIn being for business. Unfortunately this strategy didn't last very long at all. My Facebook inbox was inundated with friend requests from fans, people that I may have met once at an event and other total strangers that may have been friends of friends. At first I just ignored them until I could figure out what to do.
The problem with sites like Facebook is that if you decline a friend request, there's no ability to tell the person why you're declining their request. So you end up with potential "friends" that will have hurt feelings. If I could have had an automated response that says something like, "thanks for the friend request, but I'm using this account to connect with close friends and family. Please see my Facebook Fan page here", then I would have done that in a heartbeat. Once the request piled up to a point that I could no longer ignore them, I finally gave in and decided that my Facebook account can't be used for personal stuff. So I let everyone in. I decided that I would keep the personal information to a minimum and not post family pictures and not give my exact whereabouts in real-time (sometimes the latter can't be avoided for big events). I had suggestions from others that I should setup another account with a fake name and picture so that no one would know it's me and then I could interact with close friends and family in a more personal manner, but that just didn't feel right
I don't really care what you're doing
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